1. Practice treating my husband with esteem. Show him that he is important to me. Three ways I plan to do that are:
- Enjoy tonight as he takes me out for my birthday, and show him that I enjoy it with my actions and words.
- Hold my tongue more and/or speak to him as if he is a highly respected boss that I would not raise my voice to. Temper my words or let them go.
- If he doesn't do something, let it go... as many times as I can. Don't get discouraged when I fail... just let the next thing go until it becomes easy.
2. Join my husband in things that he enjoys. Three ways I plan to do that:
- Listen intently as he talks about his technical drawings.
- Make him dessert at least one day this week.
- Go to see Avitar with him again.