- Thank him for doing the dishes.
- Thank him for doing a great job with the laundry, and help him fold it all and put it away.
- Help him write cover letters for his job search.
- Help him dress for interviews.
- Let him know all the ways I need him.
- Speak to him with balance. Be honest about my fears for our finances while he is without work, but balance it with speech of faith.
- Do not lie to him. Acknowledge that I know he is not perfect and has faults, but emphasize that I love him anyway. Then emphasize the things he is good at, and help him to see how to turn his weaknesses into strength.
- Thank God for him in front of him.
- Pray for him out loud!
- Hug him often.
- Watch my tong. Temper my frustrations. Don't bottle them up, but don't take them out on him!
- Get over my needs and fulfill him. Especially now. He needs to be respected by me, needed by me, and fulfilled by me. I can do it with God's help. I know the job God gave me, and I know I can do it as I trust Him.
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